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Well to tell you about me, I have been able to sort out the fact that vegetables aren’t hatched and chickens aren’t planted; you don’t need an elephant to kill an ant and one does not trade a cow for a chicken, or light a candle in the sun, so that counts for some intelligence. I think that I have left lots to fight over…. I am not greedy. I see myself as trustworthy, extroverted, and well educated I think, but then every cook thinks that his dunghill is the best. I am still working on the prime wisdom. I am intuitive or at least I believe in the importance inner life, but in this regard I am no clairvoyant that’s for sure; and this is not really clear. I don't want to be as clairvoyant as "Miss Cleo" (the infamous fortune teller now living in that great American institution of basic learning for people with sticky fingers) that I do know. I seek the dreams that I deserve with each step I take. I also try to keep faith in my doubts. I believe laughter is deeply encouraging in difficult times, I think~ well I hope so? I have this theory that there is growth and transformation in laughter; who knows what religious icons could have save themselves burning, and poking and stabbing, and blood letting if they used laughter~ they could have and transforms millions, well I couldn't say that Pontius Pilate could have taken a joke but I would have tried, you know Pride before Destruction. I made this pact with myself and its’ called “My Bill of Indublities” and my First Amendment is to never argue with an idiot they have more experience. Yogi Bera championed my Second Amendment and it is “don’t take yourself too seriously because nobody gets out of life alive.” I am adventurous and open-minded but not empty headed. I am creative or is it resourceful I have never been able to really decide on that one. I am sensible, playful, cultured, social, moderately successful (I can afford to spend what I am spending). I know that you cannot reach the rainbow until you have gone through the rain. I am in my middle flirties! I like to spend time alone but this is not the way I want to wind up in life, needless-to-say, right! I am a great father, good friend. I am fair…in a subjective way ethically. I find that I don’t have an attitude problem; some people have a perception problem and me too sometimes. Although, I do realize that some days I won’t be the pigeon but the statue. I know that the only time that success comes before work is in the dictionary. I’d say that I am a great cook, but then you have to remember the dunghill theory! I still believe in opening doors and pulling out chairs and I am “color-blind” as well, I maybe a renaissance man, who knows?. I love science and astronomy; I think that if I had a clone it would be a Scientist. I say bless you when someone sneezes. I am spiritual not religious, considerate, romantic, sensual, and I love deeply and passionately. I believe in love at first sight or not. I am caring and generous but not stupid. I look people in the eye when I talk to them. I am diplomatic I think; that means I can make people see that both of us are wonderful, or is this common sense-ical. I am a leader, and a good follower; a good dancer (Dunghill!). I am a risk taker… I always need a parachute. I am confident and tactful.... I don't turn in to “attack dog” with words in an argument.... I don't do melodrama; I’ve learned that I can’t choose how I feel, but I can choose what I do about it, and I know that I am hopelessly flawed too. My favorite author is Alexander Pope, I find Shakespeare is good to read again and again, I am impressed with Marta Monahan, Paul Ferrinin, Sir Isaac Newton, Henrik Ibsen, and the poetry of Czeslaw Milosz but it takes time to wind your way through the labyrinths of his wisdom, I like W.E.B. Dubois, Paul Lawrence Dunbar, Shelly and Keats...oh, I like to read. What will this day be like, what will my future be, let’s see. My heart was born in deep silence with the strength of a giant, but like the spirit of life, made for sincere love. And this is my story and I’m sticking to it!!!

I am looking for a friend, someone who brings resonating life to love. I want to feel the warmth of her soul. I want someone who is supportive that will be there when you need them in the midst of turmoil; I want someone that will listen and tell you the truth even when it is not what is pleasant. I want someone that will encourage my/our dreams and keep your tiniest secrets. I want someone who's laughter is sunshine in my heart. I want us to be able to disagree with each other and not get into contest over trivial things, or withdraw into a self-protective shells or become arch enemies, or reform, redeem, or change each other. It is simple there can be no shadow where there is no sun, so our love must be given its’ wings to fly away and come back to love again. I want someone who will know what to do with happiness once they have found it; I want someone who knows how to love better than the blind know colors and that can give and take pleasure. I know I want our love to be a spiritual covenant we hold from the cocoon of our romance. I want someone that is communicative, beautiful, kind, effervescent, bright, accepting, womanly in her passions, purposeful, intelligent, compassionate, fun, ingeniously romantic, mentally passionate, graceful, playful, good dancer, great dresser, cultured, athletic, well read with a good inner-space, who has a good sense of humor and has dignity of character; someone that is family oriented. I am sure I am not looking for someone I can live with, but for someone that I cannot live without! And I want “Mother Nature” to cooperate with me this time because she has ignored me for so many years, but that’s life. But know this the decision of who I will love is not up to me, that’s Mother Nature’s call! Ha, ha, ha, ha, ha!