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I'm more of a home-body than a wild girl. At home, I'm often on the computer, reading, or delving into one of my handi-craft hobbies. But when I get out of the house, I enjoy a wide range of activities from going to the movies to hitting the clubs to exploring new areas. It all depends on my mood, really. I am not quick to jump into bed or to form major bonds. If you're looking for a fast lover, move onto another ad--for you will not find it within me. I like to take my time--as I would rather spend my entire life looking for the right guy than settle for a wrong one.

I prefer a great personality more than anything else. Exactly what that entails...quite frankly, it varies. People have different combinations of traits and it's really the combination of them all that makes someone attractive. However, there are a few traits that my man absolutely MUST have: 1)Absolute honesty--the truth may hurt, but lies destroy (especially trust--and once that's gone, so is the relationship). 2)Independence--Be your own person! 3)Respect my space--Allow me to be my own person. 4)Affectionate--I thrive on affection, though I'm a very private person when it comes to this. Public displays do not go over well with me. 5)Intelligence--I'm not expecting a rocket scientist, but being able to hold a decent conversation is a plus. I like to delve into philosophy and brain-twisters every now and then, it'd be nice if you not only keep up, but challenge me as well. 6)The ability to enjoy life--Crack a joke and laugh! You only get to live once, might as well make the best of it while you can. I'm pretty much flexible with everything else. So if you've got those traits, drop me a line. I'm not worried about things like what kind of car you drive, what type of career you have, or how tall you are. Those kinds of things only bring momentary happiness. However, personalities that mesh well can bring a life-time of it.