ASHERALLEN

First off, know that I am on this site to find a naturally mutually occurring bond of affection and lifestyle. I work from my home, an ideal lifestyle to be shared. All that is needed to start is for you to imagine that we could be really hot for each other physically and emotionally. Working from home is really work and play thru the day. You would be with a thinker writer type, funny too, who loves to love a woman with humor and tenderness. Although I have a particular business in my home now, other mutually small business ventures with us is entirely possible. I would like us to see ourselves as casual creators of the architecture of our world.

Many people think that after their life is "all together", and they have arrived at some place of financial or other type of independence, and that they now only need to complete the "puzzle" by adding a MAN/WOMAN. Consider that this approach to a relationship is completely undesirable in its outcomes and also unrealistic for a wonderfully functional intimate relationship. Such an approach is deemed a parallel marriage, and studies show the tone and texture of such relationships are at best unfulfilling. I believe that our culture has screwed most us out of any real chance of having a deeply satisfying relationship. I have managed to put together a plan of life designed to minimize culture's toxic recipe on marital relationships. What I am offering to share is a pretty good life. If you are not free to join me here in my home, then for goodness sakes consider a proposal. I have a life here, but it is very important to me to find someone. There are many roads to Rome. If you are concerned about moving here, changing your career or whatever, then talk to me about it. Perhaps I would relocate, and we could work something else out. If you want to be here with me, then there is structure and stability in place. Serious in a Pool of Laughter, Asher