AVILOS

I am generally shy. Once I get to know someone i really will open up though. I will say this up front - I am VERY inexperienced with women. I am saying this because I am honest to a fault. But I am no push over either. I would like to get married someday. But I really need to date for a while. If I meet someone and we share a connection maybe that someday could be soon. So it is not that "I am afraid of commitment" or some other clich� at all. After a long time of "sitting on the sidelines" I am looking to live life to the fullest. Someone to have adventures with. Enjoy nature, try new sports, maybe learn to dance, or horse back ride, etc. I guess I am a bit of a hopeless romantic! In every context of word. I worry that as much as women say they want that. They reject that as naive optimism when they actually encounter a guy who is one. I hope I am wrong though. I am a realist too though. I guess the trick in life is finding the balance between the dreamer and realist. Then finding someone who accepts that balance.