FLYNNSERLANT

Hey, I'm Geoff. I consider myself to be rather charismatic, and my friends call me the charmer who's always dependable. For me a perfect Friday night is hanging out with my friends, whether that be at someone's house just chiling/watching a movie, etc, or going out to a bar or club, I'm cool with anything. I'm also a farily chivalrous guy, and I refuse to believe that the age of chivalry died with the coming of the second door! But by no means does this entail a "constent defense of your honor," i.e. every time a guy looks at you or compliments how you look I punch him in the face - that's not me. If you really wanna get to know how chivalrous I am, you can always email me, but insofar it's been very well received. If you do email me, it may take me a little while to get back to you - I'm still new at this, and thus kinda shy about it, but also I'm taking Civil Engineering classes at UC, and studying takes up a good deal of my time. In my free time, like I said, I like to hang out with friends, but I also like going to the movies, playing pool, go to a bar/club, and when I get together with my really artsy friends, we go to museums or see the orchestra. I also decided to start training in Judo again to get my edge back and whip myself back into shape. Favorites: Ba nd s: Seven Mary Three, Moist, Goo Goo Dolls, Counting Crows, Gravity Kills, Garbage, Gin Blossoms, etc. Movies: Fight Club, Spaceballs, Memento, Clockwork Orange, Three Amigos, Batman Begins, etc.

Communication is a MUST! I think communication is one of the most (if not the most) important factor in a relationship. A lot of little problems can be fixed really quickly with a little communication before they build up into something nasty, and too many people forget that this person is their friend, too! You should always be willing to talk to your buddies. ^_^ Personally, I'm kind've a clingy guy - I like to have physical contact (and no, that doesn't necessarily mean sexual), i.e. a hug. Interesting and stimulating conversations a must - I have great difficulty connecting with someone who I don't feel is my intellectual equal/superior. While more often than not, I prefer a relatively quiet evening/night, that definately doesn't mean I don't like to go to a club or party and have a lot of fun. If I had to describe in a word what I look for, it would need to be this; balanced. Not too emotional, not too stoic, not too focused on any single aspect of life, but someone rather versatile.