JOEM

Don't have much time to look because I have a full life but am still looking for that special woman that will compliment (As opposed to control, dominate, monopolize, reinvent, etc.)my life and I hers. I am retired from the NJ Army National Guard, I'm a former commercial banker and retailer turned computer repair technician and now work for the State Government finding jobs for other people : ).I have a son, daughter and 3 grandchildren as well as an ex-wife that I get along with quite well (20 years after the divorce, ya kinda mellow out...). None of the above live with (Or particularily near) me. Wellll, other than my son who moved in with his Heavenly Father some years ago - he's always close by : ). OK - now this is what you have to be willing to put up with. I'm in "recovery" (16 years and counting)- that means meetings and lots of them. I'm also Catholic and very big on Mass attendance (Like daily). This should not scare you for 2 reasons: 1. You will not be dragged along. 2 Weekday Mass runs 15-20 minutes. You'll never notice I'm gone for that time!(: >) So enough about me for now. Want to know more - just drop me a note!

MUST have a sense of humor and a "life of her own". I'm NOT looking for someone who expects me to make them happy - I'm looking for a happy, content woman who wants to share her happiness with me and expects only that I will freely share my happiness with her. One can get through the most difficult and painful of life's situations with a positive attitude as opposed to a negative attitude.