ILOVEMYLIFE

I just want to say right off the bat that I am not of average build. I am 6 foot tall (185 cm) and weigh 285 pounds (139 kg). I am built like an American football player. Big, but not fat. I'm just a great big cuddly teddy bear. I have brown hair and hazel green eyes. I am a kind and very loving person. Very laid back. It takes a lot to get my blood pressure up. I am 44 years old and semi-retired from the music, film and television industry. I was forced into retirement after twenty six years in the industry and it was the best thing that could have happened to me. Now I get to spend more time with my 6 year old son and get to live one my dreams of working on my music and inventing new products and owning my own home based business working for myself. I am also working on my other dream of having a working farm that will work with children with disabilities. I love to have fun and make people laugh. I am a Christian and a very spiritual person. I love long walks and picnicking out in the country or by the sea. I love anything to do with nature and animals. I love music in all forms. I am a singer/song writer and I play several musical instruments. I guess I'm a hopeless romantic. I love to cook candle light dinners or just have a reason to cook for all that matters and to spend quiet evenings by a roaring fire. I'm also just as comfortable out on the town. I love swimming, movies, and the theater. I've made some bad choices in past relationships but you fall off a horse you get back on or you just stay lonely. I dislike dishonesty and head games. I had enough of that in high school. I also don't like people who take advantage of good hearted people.

First and foremost, communication is the key to any strong and healthy relationship. You have to be able to communicate to work your problems out. If the other person dosen't know how you are feeling and you keep things to yourself how can you have a good relationship? I would like to find a lady who appreciates a good hearted person and not treat him like a doormat after she's been with him for a while. She should have the same interests as I have. I am looking for a lady who likes taking long walks, picnicking in the country and yet who's not afraid to get her hair wet because I love to walk in the rain. Someone who's not worried about public displays of affection. Someone who likes holding hands. Someone who just likes to snuggle and cuddle. I guess what I mean is a very affectionate lady. Someone who likes talking about what happened in each others day. I am seeking someone who can spark the adventurous side and the intellect in me and who is willing to take their time in developing a relationship. I desire that so much.