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Me: 29, 5'8", healthy body, kind and loving. Mostly introverted; prefer individual to group discussion, but this is slowly changing with age and experience (reluctantly!) I do enjoy a good debate, assuming there is no hostility. Mostly it's an enjoyment of communication, such as laying in the bed talking for hours, playing with your hair, and discussing ridiculous things to make each other laugh. I'm a reader, but TV/movies can be ok as long as discussion is encouraged! Any constructive talk is good, especially where I get to express my plentiful opinions and then attack you with cuddling and kisses when I am wrong (often!) I am very affectionate and, although my libido is strong, something as simple as a kiss or feeling the warmth of your skin against mine can be quite a bit more satisfying and erotic than simple penetration. I will tend to fall quickly if I'm going to. I try to grow relationships and get to know you on a deep level as fast as you'll allow. Serious or personal questions are cool from the moment we meet. And if we don't work out, I don't see anything wrong with friends or casual if we remain single. I have a lot to offer, am very dedicated, and will stop at nothing for your happiness. At the same time, we're probably both busy, so we should be able to have our own lives without freaking out. I do a lot of work and school stuff so it's hard for me to find time...but of course, time can always be made for someone you love.

You: if religious, then nondogmatic. Any race, any age, past marriage, children, whatever. You must be open minded and have goals and ambitions of your own, although they don't need to be fulfilled yet. You're an "average or above" intelligence. A communicative female that can say what she is thinking. Not overly extroverted just because I don't think that we'd be a good match, but I've never dated an extrovert so I don't really know. (I am "INTJ" on those Meyers-Briggs profiles.) If you are a nerdy type we will probably be a good fit, although I don't expect to find very many women that way, so it's up to you if that's bothersome. Your shape is "decent" and your healthis good, including your libido, which should at least be "normal" if not more so (recommended to ask me about this). You can run half a block to catch a bus with a modest bag of groceries, and your stomach doesn't hang all down dragging on the ground when you're bent over. Other than this, your appearance doesn't really matter. But no fake nails, hair or boobs! Not my type at all. Honesty is very important to me. First lie: "bye." Same thing should go for me if you are self-respecting. The only people it's ok to lie to are those that would hurt you. Honesty is the basis for any solid relationship, even between different species and between racial or cultural subdivisions of a species. Oh, one more thing. If you worship money or possessions, we're not compatible; this one is pretty fundamental.