YONSONWISCONSIN

I'm a young relatively inexperienced guy just looking to enjoy myself and meet interesting people after some major life changes. I love the outdoors and nature, and music is my passion (playing, creating, enjoying). My categorically defined educational interests are in psychology, anthropology, political science, and the Spanish language, but who likes categories? I love to laugh, and while I'm not a tremendously funny guy, I like to be goofy. I am introverted, but can be very adventurous and slightly crazy when I'm comfortable. It's not that I don't have social skills, I just have never been comfortable enough around females to be very effective in communicating about myself. It's a long complex story. I'm very mature, although I seem quite "flaky" to many "civilized" people. I'm what girls seem to like to call "cute", but fortunately/u nfortunately, I am what most call a "nice guy". I respect women completely and generally regard them as more wise, interesting, beautiful and capable than men in general. This has led to only one girlfriend at the end of high school, a continuing stay at first base, and lots of frustration. So basically, I am a roaring fountain of repressed sexual energy waiting to burst out. That may be interesting to you, it may not, but so it is. I'm only slightly dorky, very intellectual, and interested in doing in my own life what I can to modify the current patriarchal/agric ltural/industrial sapiens-biased cultures that dominate the world. "You can't change the world, but you can make a dent." I respect the inherent worth and dignity of all living beings, alas, here I am living in a metropolitan "paradise", in the crowning jewel of a country for the self-destructive "free market" "First World". It's not that I imagine world peace, it is that I imagine a different way of living in the only world we have, one defined at it's core most succinctly by a philosophy of radical hospitality, and the ideas of Daniel Quinn and those he influences.

I'm looking for someone who can challenge me, but isn't afraid to be challenged, who agrees with me, but isn't afraid to disagree with me, who is serious, but isn't afraid to be silly, who is happy, but isn't afraid to be sad, who is loving, but not afraid to be unloving.