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December 07, 2004
12 Ways to Start Your First Email - Getting it Right!
Stumped for what to say to that potential date? You're not alone -- zapping off a clever email can be tough. Reaching Mr. or Ms. Right is an email away - if you do it right!
Let's explore just a few of the fun, creative ways you can catch the attention (and heart!) of your prospective date using our email system
These "Daring Dozen" email starters can help you stand out from the rest of the pack. Getting noticed, and making a good love connection, takes both patience and skill. Lets get started:
The "Daring Dozen" Email Starters
You want to seem unique. And you want to get the right kind of attention from your prospective date, too! Let's keep it light and fun .. you're exploring common interests, to find out more about another person. Be yourself, and let your imagination soar!
Email Starter #1: Tell them about something you have in common about one of their hobbies or interests. "I saw you're into shopping, me too" ..
Email Starter #2: Ask something specific about about their profile: "It sounds like you're a quiet person - are you shy?"
Email Starter #3: Ask about their experiences in dating, good and bad. "What do you like best about first dates?"
Email Starter #4: Look for something unique about them. "Wow you like water surfing - sounds dangerous - is it fun?"
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Email Starter #5: Ask about where they live in a funny way "So you live in Nebraska, is it as boring as everyone says it is? I heard a joke about why .. " Or, "so you're from Canada, eh??" (Canadians often say "eh?" don't ask me why!)
Email Starter #6: Ask about their values, read between the lines, in how they write their narrative. "You sound like you're committed to having a family - tell me about what you think family life should be all about."
Email Starter #7: Ask if they hate sports as much as you do. "I haven't watched a sports game in years, how about you?"
Email Starter #8: Avoid heavy topics, like war, terrorism, how bad the economy is, or other "downers". You're looking to develop a relationship with someone, not sound like a newscast.
Email Starter #9: What's your idea of a great vacation? is a good starter, it will help you see if they're a cosmopolitan city-type of person, or somebody who enjoys more rural, scenic outdoors travel.
Email Starter #10: Icebreakers: In the "odd but gets attention category": What's your favorite cuss word? If you could retire today, where would you live?
Email Starter #11: Celebrities - ask what movie stars they like, and what kind of movies they enjoy. Who would you consider a role model? This can be interesting!
Email Starter #12: What's your idea of an Ideal first date? This can help you understand what they like to eat, and if they like busy, crowded places, or quiet intimate settings.
Barbara Porter, Datelife.com
Posted by LC at December 7, 2004 03:40 PM
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