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December 10, 2004
Flirting via Email
It’s important that you be able to flirt with women via email, both in responding to their ads, and in responding to their responses to your ad. This part will teach you some of the basics.
FUNDAMENTALS OF RESPONDING TO A WOMAN’S EMAIL:
1. You want to make it easy for her to write you back, so ask specific questions she can answer. If you answer everything in your email to her, but don’t give her conversational openings, she’ll have to generate it all, and she won’t.
2. If you use the "reply" format, in which you quote something she says (quoted lines are usually preceded with a " > " mark, some programs use a " | "), make it easy for her. Cut out any of her stuff that isn’t relevant to what you are responding to — you don’t want to make her have to wade through a huge quote to figure out what part you are responding to.
3. Basically, you want to take stuff she talks about, and look for passion in it, and ask, "How can I describe a kind of experience with this that will feel good for her to read?" "What questions can I ask her that will have her think about great stuff, and feel good?"
4. You can throw in some "deepening," by asking something like, "I’m curious myself — I’m always interested in what people are passionate about. If you don’t mind me asking, where’s the place of greatest passion in your life? Where are those moments where everything seems to come together? For some people it’s in their job, for others it’s outside of work — I’d just be curious to know, where are those moments for you?" This will connect her with her passion, all because of you! Be prepared — she’ll ask back the same questions you ask her, but you can use it to describe more great stuff to her.
5. Give women pictures, so you can get pictures from them. You can get rid of a lot of these women quickly if you swap pictures, but you need a good one of yourself. If you don’t have one, get one taken soon. It’s okay to say "I don’t have a picture right now, but I will in a few days."
Posted by LC at December 10, 2004 03:14 PM
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