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February 09, 2005
"Don't overlook what counts"
For many men, dating seems to go great the first date, but they never get a second date.
Obviously, they overlooked some of the most important issues of impressing a female. If she went out with him, she must find him attractive enough to date, so that's not the problem. So what is the problem? Well, a lot of it is what girls call, "the little things." If you're dating a normal girl ("normal" means not a stripper, tomboy, or circus freak), chivalry is still alive. Awkward as it may seem in this day and age, every little bit counts. This includes pulling out the chair at dinner, opening the car door, and giving compliments (though too many). Don't use common cheesy compliments either, like "nice dress", or "you look wonderful." Think of something original.
Another thing males continually screw up is being a man, and thus, making decisions. Some guys put all the decisions on the girl. For example, she asks, "Where do you want to eat?" and the guy says, "I don't know. Where do you want to eat?" Don't do this, step up and at least throw out a place or ask her what kind of food she likes. Never throw the same question back at a girl. Girls hate this! On the flip side, never act too overbearing. Girls like men, not overbearing assholes. Just make sure that you allow her to be a part of the decision-making process. An example of being overbearing would be taking her on a date, completely planned by you, to events you are not sure she will even like. There's no problem with planning a date completely on your own. Many girls love this! Just make sure that it's within reason. "Don'ts" would be (without knowing her tastes), truck rallies, horseback riding, mountain biking, or skiing. Girls are very picky when it comes to things they like and dislike. It may not be that she doesn't like it; it could be that she's scared to death of the activity. A first date is usually a one-time chance to prove yourself, so don't mess it up. Find out what she likes first, and then go skydiving. A date may seem simple - dinner, movie, and a drink; however, it's everything in-between that's not.
From:www.cherade.com
Posted by LC at February 9, 2005 08:26 AM
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