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March 16, 2005
Saying 'I love you' often risks rejection
Often it's the case in relationships that one person gets to the point of saying 'I love you' before the other.
The person who says 'I love you' often risks rejection. I am collecting a list of rejections that you may have used or may have heard other people use.
Examples are:
'I love you'
'Yeah, right'
'I love you'
'It's about time'
It is important in minimizing the risk (and also not causally tossing the words around) to make sure your feelings really are genuine; which would be followed by your understanding of your soul mate well enough to know her feelings for you.
When a woman loves you there is no question in the world about it and the words are just icing on the cake.
Some look for a good friend and find a lover -- we were looking for a lover and ended up friends.
You can simply be silent and accept the statement. "I love you" should NEVER be a "yeah, me too" sentiment.
Immaturity in a relationship and messed-up hearts
Do NOT say "I love you" unless you are 150% certain that you truly do love the person you are saying it to -- even and especially if that person has just said the same to you.
Immaturity is the greatest reason for screwed-up lives and messed-up hearts. But a warning to any other women (or men) who know or suspect that someone is falling for them.
NEVER underestimate the capacity of a human being to fool themselves, to become obsessive, to fall in love with someone who has given no sign whatsoever that they're even interested.
Take courage to express undying love
Falling in love with someone you have never met, or only briefly is all too possible and all too frequent. How much easier is it then to fall for someone who is going out with you, flirting with you, hugging and snuggling up to you, ostensibly all in the name of friendship?
Watch what you do, and who you do it to, and don't assume that "oh, it's ok - he knows I don't mean it", or be prepared for some man, or woman, to express their undying love for you when you least expect it.
From:www.datingfast.com
Posted by LC at March 16, 2005 11:51 AM
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